Is she interested or does she just see me as a friend?

dd1463 · 24th December 2004, 3:27 AM

Hey guys…. I am a little confused right now.

So there is this girl that I have known for about 2 years. Both of us go to the same High School (Senior Year). We never really talked before, it would just be a quick hi, bye, or conversation. Lately we have been talking a lot more, just as really cool friends. Sometimes I will go kick it with her during nutrition and lunch. Most of the time I go and kick it with her, she will sit in between my legs leaning back on me or if its cold she will open my jacket and hug me for the whole nutrition and lunch to stay warm. I think nothing of this, under my eyes we are really cool friends, but now I am not sure if she is starting to like me or if she also sees me as a really cool friend. Now that we are on X-mas vacation, she calls me just to talk for no real reason.

She has always plucked my eyebrows and now that we are on vacation I needed someone to pluck them for me, well… she called me and messing around I told her that she needed to pay me a visit so that she could pluck my eyebrows. Right after that she said that she was on her way, a few minutes later she showed up at my door (She Drivers). So I sit on my couch and she sits on me and starts plucking my eyebrows. Then she starts telling me how see wants a boyfriend, someone who she can loose her virginity too and not someone who will hurt her, that she wants a serious relationship. Then she asked if I was seeing anyone. We just kept talking and talking while she was plucking my eyebrows. I could have easily rushed her, she kept getting really close, but at the time I didn’t think anything about it. I never really thought about the things she does/says…. Now I am getting the feeling that she might like me, but then again, she might see me as a good friend. After like 2 hours of her being at my house, she had to go to a volleyball game. After her game she called me just to talk, after like 20 minutes of talking she says “You’re not doing anything, I’m not doing anything, I should go to your house and watch a movie.” I said sure… she came and picked me up, we rented a movie and came back to my house. We saw the movie sitting really close to each other. She was leaning on me, putting her hands/head on me. The movie was over at around 11:30 AM, she went home. As soon as she got home she called me to ask me something. I just answered her questioned and told her to have a good night. I think she really just called to talk and her question was the "reason" to call.

What do you guys think? Is this girl starting to like me or does she just see me as a really cool friend?

CurvyGurl · 24th December 2004, 3:30 AM

If she doesn't like you, she should stop sending out the Bat signal... seems like she was throwing out all sorts of hints.

CurvyGurl · 24th December 2004, 3:34 AM

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Originally posted by dd1463
Hey guys…. I am a little confused right now.

Clue! Now that we are on X-mas vacation, she calls me just to talk for no real reason.

Clue! So I sit on my couch and she sits on me and starts plucking my eyebrows.

Clue! Then she starts telling me how see wants a boyfriend, someone who she can loose her virginity too and not someone who will hurt her, that she wants a serious relationship.

Clue! Then she asked if I was seeing anyone. We just kept talking and talking while she was plucking my eyebrows.

Clue! After her game she called me just to talk, after like 20 minutes of talking she says “You’re not doing anything, I’m not doing anything, I should go to your house and watch a movie.”

Cluuuuuuuuuueeee! We saw the movie sitting really close to each other. She was leaning on me, putting her hands/head on me. The movie was over at around 11:30 AM, she went home.

Clue! CLUE! CLUUUUUUEEE! As soon as she got home she called me to ask me something. I just answered her questioned and told her to have a good night. I think she really just called to talk and her question was the "reason" to call.

Ahem. Yes. She likes you.

24th December 2004, 4:10 AM

I think her next step is to have it tattoed to your a$$. Just whatever you do don't actually show that you really care or she'll probably freeze up on ya. And if...some time down the road you 2 have hooked up in that kind of way don't go treating her like a queen (you will actually get her attention more by seeming indifferent) or she'll freeze up and dump ya fer sure. DON'T ASK me why women are like that...most but not all of em' just are. And don't let them kid you about what I just said...the honest and mature women will admit that what I have said is true. Take care and hope it all works out for you...MindNumb

CurvyGurl · 24th December 2004, 9:09 AM

I agree, a man who appears too eager and devoted is creepy. Sad, but true. Go slow, don't jump into too much too soon. Always leave her wanting more!

alphamale · 24th December 2004, 10:07 AM

she may be thinking of you as the dude to de-flower her (i.e. take her virginity)

both of you get drunk one night and see what develops

Angelus666 · 26th December 2004, 1:00 AM

Lol. Just reading the whole post, must have made me laugh at least four times out loud. Like everyone has stated before me, yeah, I think she likes you. If only my girlfriend would have been more obvious the first night we met. I was drunk, apparently she was all flirty, but I missed it. You got it easy pal.

By the way, what’s with the whole eyebrow plucking thing? That is so strange. Meh.

dd1463 · 26th December 2004, 1:36 AM

Thanks for all the replies guys!

Do girls say/do the things she does to me to just normal guy friends?

LOL... I get my eyebrows plucked. Don't think I have eyebrows like a girl! I just get them clean, I keep my natural eyebrow line, just a lot nicer looking. No extra hair jumping around, just nicely even outlines.

neptoon · 26th December 2004, 9:26 AM

Yeah, I think she likes you and then some. She might have been waiting for the right moment to kiss you.

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Originally posted by MindNumb
Just whatever you do don't actually show that you really care or she'll probably freeze up on ya. And if...some time down the road you 2 have hooked up in that kind of way don't go treating her like a queen (you will actually get her attention more by seeming indifferent) or she'll freeze up and dump ya fer sure. DON'T ASK me why women are like that...most but not all of em' just are. And don't let them kid you about what I just said...the honest and mature women will admit that what I have said is true. Take care and hope it all works out for you...MindNumb

I disagree with the above statement. Women do eventually give up on men who seem indifferent to us -- we love thoughtful passion. We don't like guys who have no backbone towards us or society. There is a difference between these two things.