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Me and my girlfriend were talking on the phone the other day about sex. She asked me what I thought about it and if I was just one of those guys who HAD to get laid before college or if I wanted to find someone I cared about first. I told her it didn't matter when it was, before or during or after, as long as it was with someone I truly cared about. Then she was like, "Yeah, well I don't know, I really want my first time to be with someone I care about... But I think before college is probably too early." So, while I do respect this decision, it kind of worried me. I have had plenty of girlfriends, but none of them can even come close to this one, and I really do, or did want her to be my first experience. I am also worried she is making this decision for the wrong reasons.. IE. she thinks all of her friends would consider her a slut, or maybe she just set an age limit and was like even if I really love someone I wont have sex with them until I am this old and it seems like she feels it is absolutely impossible to avoid pregnancy, I don't know where she got these notions, but I think this might be what she worries about most. Anyways I guess another problem for me is I really do want to spend the rest of high school with her (I am a junior) but honestly I would like to have sex before I graduate. Also we have been dating about 2 months, this is the longest she has ever dated anyone. We have touched each other and she keeps telling me about how sometime we are going to take a shower naked together and all sorts of stuff like that. But to me its like, why is she so comfortable with all of that, but not sex? Also does this mean she will never want me the way I want her?

Which brings me to another question.. What do women think of guy virgins? I don't want to be thought of as a loser or anything because I have never had sex and I don't want for a girl to leave more or just stop liking me because of it. Ladies? thoughts?