[theone44]

I was just wondering should i send my ex an e-card just saying "Happy Thanking". I would like if any other on this is going to send their ex an thanksgiving e-card. The reason i want to send is not to communicate or get back with her,but just being me and kind and letting her know i am not not resentful or anger toward her.

"Be good and kind to everyone,including your ex"

[alphamale]

Here are the rules:

1) If you broke up with her then go ahead and send the e-card
2) If she broke up with you then do NOT send the e-card or any other communication, you'll only look like a sap.

[smile]

do you send out thanksgiving cards to other people? i know you want to contact her .. when my ex and i broke i went to a million websites looking for the most obscure holidays just so i could have an excuse to contact him..i never sent a card tho.. i wanted to.. for talk like a pirate day, arbor day, forgiveness day.. ah well. Be honest with yourself.

If you want to wish her a happy thanksgiving via ecard because you truly have every selfless "nonwanting to convince her to get back with me in any way" cell in charge then go to it. If you think you may be doing it so she can see how much you care, well then maybe you should wait till christmas..its just a couple weeks anyway.

And hey while youre at it send some cards to old friends and family. Its important that everyone in your life feels appreciated and loved... this way it seems less about her and more about the season. way less weirdness and pressure on you both...

thats just my opinion btw HAPPY THANKSGIVING

[pancakepalace]

You might try to send it for january 9th.

You'll find out what holiday it is on this site.

http://www.bellaonline.com/subjects/6568.asp

Good luck!
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