[chicothechimp]

Why do I want to tell that wife that these two have been getting together, emailing, messaging and phoning more and more the past 4 months? It seems likely that sexual copulation has also occured after work between them. I cannot divulge my source but it is extremely reliable.

Obviously I am pissed off so I would have to admit that that revenge would have part of my motivation.

But I honestly have to say that I am deeply offended that this married man/father of two would be polluting his marriage bond with this kind of moronic behavior. What in the world my ex-gf is thnking is beyond me. They obviously connect conversationally. But everyone knows that getting involved with your boss is the stupidest thing you can imagine. She (and he) will be fired at some point.

I have the husband's email & home address, phone number and fax number. I could send the wife a few documents from her husband to this chick that CLEARLY address that this is not a friendship any longer. If this thing is snuffed earlier isn't it more likely that they can heal from this? As much as I would like to cave his skull in with a pipe some days, I do want him to get his $hit together with his wife again. He should be giving all the attention he gives to my ex-gf to his wife instead.

How do the rest of you deal with it when your ex behaves likes a whore and yet you know you love her and would be willing to work **** out but you know that getting on with your life is most important at this point? THis no sleep thing is literally driving me crazy. If she hadn't told me she loved me right up until the last day (let alone sleep with me and have sex and talk pretty openly) things would have been much cleaner for a break. She flew away rather than fight and work $hit out. She has never been a quitter her whole life... why now?

I am having a tough day. Thanks for letting me vent. I still can't believe I trusted her as much as I did.

This message board has literally prevented me from doing things Iknow I would regret deeply. Thank you all so very much for opening your wounds for me to see as well.




Chico