im just wondering, from a white or black girl point of view, do you girls find asian men attractive, and would u date one? Also, what do you think is wrong with asian guys that makes u might not want to date them?

[Pocky]

I don't find Asian men attractive in general. I think it's mostly just a physical appearance and not a cultural difference that causes this lack of attraction. They are generally shorter, more slender and not as thick as the mend I tend to find myself attractive to.

[Stone]

I think some are attractive, I do prefer taller buff men, ( I am very tall) however I see alot of Asian men in my area and most of them dress VERRY Well, I like that I don't think race will have much to do with it as long as you are a gentlemen.

[on the edge]

i used to work with an asian guy and had i not been married at the time i would have went out with him. he was very attractive and had a wonderful personality. which, like stone said, as long as your a gentleman, race doesn't have alot to do with it.

[tokyo]

Is this is another Asian guy complaining about being left out in the interracial dating game.....

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t24551/

[UCFKevin]

I wanna know why, from what I see, Asian girls usually only date Asian guys. What gives?

[alicia24]

i dont find asian men attractive. Thats just my opinion. I like latin boys and italian boys

[Bubbles]

I think Asian/American or Asian/Spanish......some kind of mix does the trick for me. Unfortunatly I don't find Asian men all that attractive unless......they do something to make themselves appealing. I would enjoy it if an Asian man was built, a good dresser, has a firm grip on the english language you know the usual stuff.

Make yourself "unique" and you'll get my attention (visually that is). Don't walk around speaking in Asian and expect a girl to be attracted to you.


Bubbles

[tokyo]

Originally posted by UCFKevin
I wanna know why, from what I see, Asian girls usually only date Asian guys. What gives?

That´s not true!? Never been to San Francisco? And as far as I know Asian women are supposed to have the exotic bonus. Well, I stated my opinion on this on the other thread already.....

[Missy1171]

I do! My ex H was 1/2 Japanese and 1/2 American. And gorgeous, but he knew it
also which is why he is an ex! Ex boyfriend was Puerto Rican.

There is just something about the dark hair and dark complection that just does it for me.

Is India Asian or not? If so they are some very good looking men also. There is
this one guy I now who is Indian and he dresses very nice,looks great and speaks
perfect English.
Makes my fingers itch to touch him!!

[Naive]

I am not attracted to Asian guys. I don't know why, but it's just in me. Physically they don't do much for me.

[krbshappy71]

Hi I'm extremely shallow and had always been told Chinese/Japanese guys were not well endowed. I have yet to find out if this is true. I have never been approached by an asian man, the ones I have met were quiet and business-man looking. Perhaps I'm intimidated by them I dunno. Since I moved away from CA I really haven't had much contact with any. I'd certainly have trepidation as to whether or not their family would think I measured up. They seem to have a very strong family unit and that is intimidating to me also. So many to please/impress! That's my shallowness in a bottle, you're welcome.

[Merin]

Hmmm.. Well I won't say there isn't any asian guys that are attractive, I will say that the ones I've come across while very polite and usually always friendly.. the physical appearance just doesn't do it for me.. thin and "fragile" looking..

My boyfriend is Spanish.. and IMHO absolutley gorgeous

[dreamy]

Well there's nothing "wrong" with asian men. There's attractive men, and not so attractive in all races. If you're good looking then what girl wouldn't want to date you of course it's not all about looks, unless that's what you want. If you're not that good looking then you'll probably find it more difficult doesn't matter what your race is. Not all asian men are short, thin and fragile looking, so don't generalize. I've seen lots of tall asian guys. And that thing about not being well endowed that's not true another stereotype. All races have small, big etc. I do know there are white and black girls that prefer asian men. I've seen quite a few. Believe it or not some exclusively only date asians. Everyone has their preferences. I think most asian guys tho prefer to date just asians or you'd see much more AM/non-asian female couples. But I do get the impression that this is changing.
Btw the fathers of keanu reeves, russell wong, brandon lee, dean cain just to name a few are asian and look how they turned out. All quite good looking. Asian mixed offspring do seem to look predominantly "asian", not always of course..Giving them that exotic look. Anyway my opinion is that YES there are girls that find asian men attractive.

[joseyposie]

i have been dating asians for 18 yrs . love them almost got married to a vietnamese but it didn't work out.