How do I get past the ending of a 17 yr friendship?
This is ridiculous! I posted months ago about ending my friendships with Jane, Gordon, and Ann. I have moved and have not spoken to any of them since the entire thing happened back in July. Is it normal to still be so sad and upset by the end of our friendships? Shouldn't I be over this by now? I am not suicidal or anything but I still cry at night and I have a very hard time trusting and talking to people. I just keep thinking that there is no point talking to people because they will just end up stabbing me in the back. I have essentially isolated myself from my other friends for fear of being hurt as badly as I have been by Jane. Any thoughts as to how I can get past this? No one I know realizes how badly I am dealing with this.
I do want to thank those that gave me their 2 cents when I posted before...I needed to hear some other peoples opinions and you guys helped!
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