I'm a lesbian, he is gay and we are cousins. Yes its not right
Lets start from beginning.
I first took him to the gay club when he was 19 and I told him I was lesbian and he saw me with girls and stuff. I got my first girlfriend and we have been together ever since.
He started making out with guys than told me he was gay and I was happy but then something happened and he said he wasn't gay and said he was just experimenting to see what it was like because I had done it. he seems to do a lot of things I do. Anyway for the next three years he saw girls and no guys and one night I have always sensed he has had an attraction to me but he is my cuz and i'm lesbian.
One night we kissed, I was well drunk and started kissing him, he didn't seem to mind and carried on and even asked me if I had turned straight and forgotton my girlfriend who at this point we had splited up so we were not together, the started to get all weird on me and kept looking at me and said he it was difficult and I went back to my girlfriend, he didn't speak to me for months and months. A few months ago we met up and he told me he was gay, I was happy and we never spoke of that night. We went out to a club and he told me was in love with a woman ( i thought god he is confused isn't he), than he hugged me, I said If I wasn't your cuz would you date me and stuff and he said stop embarrassing me, I laughed and he said maybe I would but he is still supposed to be gay. He always says to me I need a man to turn me etc but if he is so gay he should understand its not that easy to just turn.
I know its a long rant and stuff but he is freaking me out in many ways. One night I could feel him pressing against me and one time he out his hand on my bum and said it was so no one else looks at me. He doesn;t act like any of my other gay friends but he has got something gay about him and he does fancy guys and stuff I just wish I didn't get this feeling he likes me a bit more than he should.
Any advice guys?
I posted in another forum but get the feeling this community is more appropriate.
he is freaking me out in many ways. One night I could feel him pressing against me and one time he out his hand on my bum and said it was so no one else looks at me. He doesn;t act like any of my other gay friends but he has got something gay about him
weird world. he's your cuz and he's got the hots for you. he needs telling. he sounds very suggestible and immature and you should be careful not to lead him on. kissing won't have helped much. neither will letting him rub against you.
when he puts his hand on your ass tell him in no uncertain terms your ass is reserved. he needs to get his own ass.
No I would not be happy with him at all, I wanted him so much to be and when he said he was I was so happy, he knows I like him gay best (sorry if it seems weird but I have always thought he was gay) until he started acting all weird on me.
In one simple word I would not be happy if he turns around and says he isn't really gay, he has already done this before saying he wasn't really gay.
Originally posted by sexykitten
No I would not be happy with him at all, I wanted him so much to be and when he said he was I was so happy, he knows I like him gay best (sorry if it seems weird but I have always thought he was gay) until he started acting all weird on me.
In one simple word I would not be happy if he turns around and says he isn't really gay, he has already done this before saying he wasn't really gay.
Maybe this is why he's telling you he is gay. You should be happy with your cousin no matter what his sexual preferences. Are you sure you're really lesbian considering you're attracted to your male cousin?
Hell, you seem to want to have sex with him anyway. Maybe if he isn't gay he could find a GF who might be interested in a threesome.
Seriously though, he's your cousin. You both need to grow up and quit groping each other. Abd be happy with him whether he's gay or not.
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Last edited by Kizzyfur; 11th September 2004 at 9:59 AM..
Not happy with him??? That's crazy! And I think he needs to get a life and decide for himself what he wants to be. I'm guessing you would like people to accept you for who you are.....well, accept him for who he is without trying to shape him into something YOU are comfy with.
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I agree. Maybe he keeps saying he's gay because he knows it will make you happy. If you really care about your cousin you will accept him for who is, gay or not.
Don't respond to this thread !!! This is fake. A friend of mind in college was so excited to tell me about this story, That he has to write a paper about.
Who ever posted this........... get a life!!!!!!!!!!!
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