[BlackWidow]

I broke up from my friend/ boyfriend cause he said something really hurtful to me ...but the question I forget to ask is what propelled him to be so mean and aggressive!...now I'm sitting her trying to cope but still feel somehow confused. I know to myself there's no turning back BUT I need closure to move on. I want to know why he exploded the way he did.
How do I get this information without looking desperate?... I know his friend and I need this information so that I can move on easily...IT'S CALLED CLOSURE!...
The last time we spoke it was calmly and casually and we agreed to meet and x our things and that was it. He never asked n e thing...he called once since I decided to split and run and I didn't accept the call.


BlackWidow

[grojas1986]

what was the hurtfull thing he said? was it "i love you"? lol jk
i heard time helps. i mean, i'm just now getting over my ex and it has been 3 weeks since she turned to "superbitch". so cheer up kid

[BlackWidow]

What'd you mean super bitch? He treatment of you?
He said "Well, I'm a very busy and our reason for communicating has ended!"
I felt as though I was fooling myself!.

BlackWidow

[grojas1986]

yeah my ex gf was real mean and immature. if you read the post labeled "why some girls" or something like that, you can read my story about my final conversation with my ex gf. the way i see it is that nobody should be with someone else who doesn't appreciate their feelings and thoughts. also if the feeling is not mutual, the relationship usually crashes when you try to take it to the next level. ( this is just in my past experiences) but don't worry about it, there is bound to be at least a hundred other people out there that you connect with. i hope i was helpful.

[BlackWidow]

Yes. I really appreciate your assistance and it was helpful to me. I called him to remind him that I'd be passing for my things and he chuckeled "where're you at now?" so I firmly said "I'm a home...ok leave the things with the girl downstairs and I drop and uplift later".I believe he's mocking my behivor or something...but he'll get over it. I'll get the last laugh!.


BlackWidow

[grojas1986]

Good for you, I'm glad to hear you are feeling better.