[crash&burn]

Hi everyone,

My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago, we were together for 2.5 years. We broke up for reasons which I can't understand fully. She says things had gotten too routine and boring. She said that she wasn't ruling me out forever, just that we couldn't be together at the moment, because she doesn't know how to fix this problem and wasn't happy feeling the way she was.

I feel as though I want to start taking her out to do fun things like roller blading, picnics, the beach, etc.. but I don't want her to feel as though i'm pushing her. Also she is stressed out with uni, so I don't want to seem like a hinderance.

What do i do? I want to work things out, I feel as though she wants me as her boyfriend, just oure situation was the problem (both at uni, both living with different friends, both broke).

Can asking your ex if they still love you and miss you ruin any chance of a reconcilliation? Does her not showing me any affection anymore (i.e. hugs and kisses) mean that she doesn't love me anymore?

What do you all think?