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Old 24th August 2004, 7:59 PM   #1
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How to forget someone?

What is the easiest way to forget about the feelings you have for someone. I am sick of trying to get a girl who clearly doesn't like me and I was just wondering how could I forget about her. I would like to know the easiest and quickest way because I am sick of all of my twisted feelings.

Please help me.
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Old 24th August 2004, 8:03 PM   #2
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Wow

See what you do is...

You follow the yellow brick road and get the wizard and ask him to help you forget...


But seriously...

There's no step-by-step guide on how to forget someone really "quick'

Only time and patience can help you forget. Staying strong and trying your hardest not to think about that person.

Thats all you can do.
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Old 24th August 2004, 8:29 PM   #3
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1. Rent the following:
* "The Tao of Steve"
* "Swingers"
* "In the Company of Men"

2. Purchase lots of beer or your favorite liquor.

3. Invite over your guy friends.

4. Watch #1, drink #2, and drunk box with #3.


Wash, rinse, repeat.
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Old 24th August 2004, 8:35 PM   #4
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Date a lot of women!

Most of the times this helps, but it just depends on what type of person you are. If you are too vulnerable then it can just mess you up worse!
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Old 25th August 2004, 2:51 AM   #5
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thanks for the help.

ill take some of the advice
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Old 25th August 2004, 9:25 AM   #6
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I think to be able to forget you have to build yourself up. Recognize that you are worthy of being loved even though this person didn't love you. You have to love yourself. If you try to find someone else too quickly all you are doing it trying to bury the pain felt from the rejection, eventually those memories will come back unresolved. Take it from someone who knows. See I am really hurting right now because my husband still has issues over the 1st girl he was ever "in love" with. She used him terribly and then told him she never really loved him, this was his senior year in high school. He turns 40 this year!!! Last year he tried to locate her behind my back and I found out about it. It has seriously injured the foundation of our marriage.

Do whatever it takes to put this behind you. I wish you luck.

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Old 25th August 2004, 8:36 PM   #7
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#1 miracle cure for getting over a girl...flirt/hang out with other girls.

When you start finding other girls you are interested in, you will realize how great they are and how the old girl you were infatuated with is no big deal.
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Old 27th August 2004, 5:41 PM   #8
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I have the same problem. Only over a guy. How to get over them. I have a diffrent aproach than most you will hear. Dont get over her. Who says u should loose that feeling? Yes move on but why not leave the door open. When I look back i say to myself, well I'll just have to show um how unlucky they are. It helps me move on. Do look at other girls, flirt with um, date um. Just learn from it. If they insist on treating you like durt, then well u should wise up, why the hell do u like um, but if there a good person why not just stay friends? Cus it hurts? Cus she is the type who says she wants to be a friend but isnt honest? Some of us gals are jerks, some arnt, and some, well we just dont like u. Over all tho, if someone ever falls like that for u and u dont like um.. remember how it felt. Dont do the same thing to them.
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Old 27th August 2004, 11:25 PM   #9
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Thanks Trager I think I'll try and follow your advice because it sounds like the best advice about this situation.
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Old 7th January 2006, 4:33 AM   #10
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im in the same place you are man

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What is the easiest way to forget about the feelings you have for someone. I am sick of trying to get a girl who clearly doesn't like me and I was just wondering how could I forget about her. I would like to know the easiest and quickest way because I am sick of all of my twisted feelings.

Please help me.
hey man i've liked the same girl for a while know we dated then broke up and then we started to ****ed around through out the year until last aug. If you figure out a ways to forget about her then please help me forget about mine. I keep thinking she might be the one and what not but then again growing time takes time and pure love will never clash, theres a long road ahead of us, so keep your head up and let your karma be plushed.....if you figure out how to forget about the girl though help me. thanks
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Old 7th January 2006, 9:25 AM   #11
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shoot her

SHOOT HER lol then no 1 else can have her that will make you feel BETTER least u will no where she is a nite THEN i wish it was that easy i like you gutted or a girl real gutted 9 weeks still in love but she dont want to NO
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