[alwiemers]

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long Story, made short. Me and my boyfriend (now separated) had been dating for 2 1/2 years. We would always

talk about our future together, and the whole deal. But this summer I meet someone at work who was very funny

and nice. My relationship with my boyfriend at the time was kind on the outs, but didn't think anything of it cause

every relationship has its ups and downs. Anyway ... this guy said all the right things to me and we ended up

talking on the phone and then kissing one night. I regretted it right away and told my boyfriend. We are now

separated and I know he is the one... I want him back and I need him in my life. Any advise would help sooo soo

much. We are taking things slow at the moment and kinda giving each other space. We are having dinner this week

and if anyone has any ideas of what the right things to say are please help!!!

[chubachoop]

You need to be entirely honest with him. You say your relationship was on the outs. Why was it? (u dont need to tell me but talk about it to him) If you discuss with him things in the relationship which are making you unhappy u could work together at fixing them. Tell him you feel dreadful bout kissing this man but you did it because..................... (insert reason)

If your not honest and you dont talk about what was going wrong to make you kiss someone else then later on if you get back together, the same problems could arise again

[pixie2004]

Why do we always make the same mistakes. Don't we ever learn?

The grass looks always greener on the other side, hey?

Silly you - everyone deserves a second chance... just beg and plead. You should know by know (after 2 and a half years) what makes him "tick". At least he is still talking to you and considering to go for dinner....

X my fingers!