[lucyiam]

Long story short, (4 Weddings and a funeral), I was seeing a separated man for 1-1/2 years, he missed his kids, went back to a 3 time cheating wife. I couldn't handle the just being freinds afterwards, didn't see each other for 2 or more years. I got married (rebound), had a child, divorced. And now both having found ourselves single, both with baggage, but picked up right where we left off. Of course had the great reunion sex. Tonight, 2 weeks later he seems illusive. (Very good looking, great body, with slight hard to get attitude.) I always felt I was out of his league, but not now that I am a mother, older, wiser and a better person. He has invited me to Mexico, talked about retiring in 15 years, confirming my child would be 18. We have always had a very open and honest relationship. I just want to make sure I am not way out of line if I confront him. Or should I play hard to get. The first man I ever fell in love with....even after the heart breaking, he is all I have ever wanted....he's still in my heart. Thoughts?

[therresa kennedy]

Yes, play it safe by playing hard to get, end the phone convesations first, you can be sweet, that is always better but don't let him think he has all the power, remember men love a challenge, and some men get bored quickly with the (I want to please you all the time) woman. Don't be one of those, and keep it interesing, keep him quessing and good luck, happy games to you, wouldn't it be nice if it weren't so? unfortunately it is so in this day and age, so be prepared. Take care.