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Old 21st July 2004, 9:39 PM   #1
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can u be friends with ex who cheated on u

My boyfriend and I broke up because he cheated on me.

He went to LA and sent a mail to global freeloaders to girls to stay at their place even though his hotel was paid for by his company.
He said he mailed them to find out what spots were cool to hang out in LA. I find it strange.

He said I was a snoop. And that I am possessive and the only way he would be happy is he was a hamster in a cage.

Anyways, we have been having problems for the last 2 years.

We broke up. It is not the first time I suspect him of cheating.

Last time we spoke was 1 week ago. He phoned to chat and said he would be calling me in a week to leave me his new phone number. After I hung up, I got upset because he told me he went shopping for pillows. He alwasy had lousy pillows.

I phoned his work and left a message saying that I had things to take care of in my life and did not want to know if he bought pillows and to know about anything about his life.

I feel bad about saying that but I was upset when I hung up with him. He was saying he was going to call in a week and I realized I am no longer his girlfriend.

He was always polite with me and never acted that way with me.

Was I wrong to get upset at him.

Can people leave in good terms.

Can I be friends with him?
Help!
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Old 21st July 2004, 10:17 PM   #2
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Can I be friends with him?
I don't understand why anyone would want to maintain a friendship with their cheating ex.

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Was I wrong to get upset at him.
No, of course not, you have every reason to be pissed off at him.
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