Messed up relationship?!?!
Ok I have a question for everyone, and I hope you can help me. I've been with my g/f for two years now, and we've just had a little baby girl 2 months ago. Well during this two years we've had our differences and have tried to work past them. She can argue till she's blue in the face, then take a breath and pick up where she left off. She's very insecure about a lot of things, I mean I can't even go to wal-mart alone without being made to feel guilty. And I do nothing but work, weight train, and come home. I've given up a lot and sacrafice everything that I have for her. And I still can't get her to get past her jealousy of anyone. If a girl that I went to high school with even says hi and do you remember me, jealousy sets off and it's a rough rough night. Oh and I never slept with the girls or even so much as hugged them. But yet she expects me to be ok with guys, that we will just refer to as guys she's dated, but she will talk with the guys and carry on conversations, and still has some of their numbers, even though I have told her repeatedly about my concerns for that. And it always comes down to we're just friends NOW. We've managed to work past that and I've pretty much made my presence known with the guys, and they won't come near if I'm around but I know they try like hell if I'm not. Well she has one ex imparticular that treated her like ****, he is a huge druggie, and pretty much got her to give up on all hope of a happy life. And though she doesn't talk to him anymore, she still remains in contact with his family, calling them or them calling her. How should I handle this?
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