[LostInDaytona]

ok, so this is going to sound absolutely pathetic. It does to me every time i think about it. I just need someones advice.

Im 20 now, but when i was 15 i met a wonderful girl, we were together for a year and had a really nasty break up. We were so close, and so in love. Some people say that kids can't experiance true love, i completely disagree, i haven't felt like that towards anyone since, or before that for that matter. Her and i are friends now, but not close friends. Is it completely wrong for me to still miss her? Its so sad that its been four years now since i was last with her and i still think of her every day in some little way. i fear that i will never feel the way i did with her again, and that i lost alot of the love i had in me by loosing that relationship. this is just a late night ramble, but im just so disturbed by the fact that i may have met that one special person when i was that young, and lost it completely. just need someone to talk to. Thanks for your help.

Ryan

[pitprincess]

Ryan
A few years has past... People grow up and change, She wont ever know what or how you feel until you tell her or show her.
Being Friends always shares a great memory in your life, sharing love and romance are great memories as well.

I think it's very possible to love as a child.
Me and My husband have been married 22 years and heading to #23 in august of this year. We have had many up's and down's but manage to love one another and stay together.

I think you should let her know how you feel, even if your relationship remains just friends.
At least you know that you did let her know

[dudesomewhere]

duude...hehe

it is my belief that when you are young, the love you feel tends to be different. It may not be true love but it is a pure love. Your love probably blossomed out of the innocence you had and maybe growing up in a world of full of unneccessary drama you miss that which once was. Many people in adulthood think their love should be like those found in tv shows like BH 90210, Melrose Place...any numerous soap operas. I guess for them, if that's what they need so be it. But you are still at that age where your heart can make a firm decision how it wants to beat. I love innocence...innocence in love...love untainted by dramas where there are no games, no ulterior motives...nothing but love.

So that's what I think you feel. It's not pathetic. Is it pathetic to think of someone and miss their smile, miss how she'd cross her eyes when you look at her to make you laugh, miss how she'd play a jinx game on you and get you 30 times a day...is it pathetic to think about someone and the good times you've had? Sometimes people have to walk different paths, and if they never really betrayed each other, it's not pathetic to remember them.

Yeah, I was thinking of someone when I was saying those things , and doing so gives me a warm smile everytime and if that's pathetic than I am indeed. But I use the good memories of positive people as rays of hope in my life. You may have lost something with her, but don't give up and lose IT entirely. Tell her what you miss, what you remember and maybe you can be close again...maybe not in that way but friendship is nothing to balk at.

gl

[pitprincess]

aw... thats sweet dude