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Old 1st June 2004, 7:47 PM   #1
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Unhappy think boyfriend cheated on me with bestfriend

[font=arial][/font][color=darkred][/color] My boryfriend has been hangin out wit my best friend a lot lately. When we first started goin out he told me that he had feelings for her but not anymore. Even though he said he doesnt have feelings for her i dont like it wen they are together.

A couple days ago my friend was over his house and that same night he broke up with me. My friends siter told me that she was telling him lies so he would brake up with me because she likes him n she wants to go out with him.

well the next day i talked to him n he told me that she was tryin to make him brake up with me but that he didnt brake up with me because of that.he said that it was because he is goin away for the summer n he didnt trust himself n he tought he was goin to do sumthin n he didnt want me to hate him.i think thats bull.he also told me he broke up with me becaus ehe had kissed another girl n he felt bad.he wont tell me who the grl is but i htink it was my friend

well i talked ot my friend n we straitened out our probs but then she i.m.ed me callin me a b!tch n all this other stuff.it was because her x-boyfriend wants to get with me.well i told her i would never get with one of her boyfriends n she said ok n we were strait again.

the next day my ex-boyfriend(curently boyfriend..again) called me. he told me that she was tlakin a lot of junk about me n that she said that she wanted to fight me n all this other stuff

well that same night we got back together.the next day i was tlakin to my friend on the fone tryi nto straiten thing outn i told her thta we got bac together n she got really pissed n she started talkin a lot of **** n we started arguin.she told me that my boyfriend was 2-faced n that he was tlakin a lot of **** about me behind my back n that i was stupid to get bac with him.

today i went to skool n my friend's xboyfriend want to go out with me.he is real cool n were like best buds. i dont like him like dat n plus me n my boyfriend got back togethe

i need help i dont kno wat to do
should i brake up with my boyfriend??
should i go out wit my friends xboyfriend??
should i try n fix thing up wit my friend??
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Old 1st June 2004, 11:16 PM   #2
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The quelms of teenage relationships. As far as your "bestfreind" goes, get rid of her, a best freind doesnt do that to you. Ive had enemies who have treated me nicer than your supposed "bestfreind". Your boyfreind? Yeh, if I were you, I wuld let let boyfreind and friend have eachother. they sound like a match made in heaven. Then they can sit ther and have a nice healthy relationship amonst eachother, taling about the other behind backs all the time, cheating. Sounds like they would make a good couple. So my advice? Ditch the "best freind", cuase she ISNT. and ditch the boyfreind, cuase he sure as hell isnt a boyfreind. And let them have eachother and be miserable together.
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Old 2nd June 2004, 2:12 PM   #3
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I agree: dump them both. You don't need either of 'em. If they are that two-faced by changing their stories so much, you'd be better off by yourself than dealing with that drama. You'd never be sure of who was telling the truth about what the other said, and blah, blah, blah....
Good luck!!!
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Old 2nd June 2004, 10:33 PM   #4
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thanks..well i talked to my friend n i found out that she was really was tellin me the truth..i was tlakin to my friend on the fone n he was over her house n he was talkin junk about me n h e sai dhe was gunna brak eup wit me cuz im simple(dumb)..so i broke up with him..n after i broke up wit he r he was tellin my friend madd ***** so me n her wouldnt b friend he told he that iwa stalkin mad djunk wen i wasnt..n now me n my friend r strait again..n were gettin bac at my x..its gunna b fun
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