If you need some background on my story, then please read the following:
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t37652/
It's not too long of a story... but basically, I stopped calling my ex-gf as well as talking to her as soon as our classes and finals ended. She actually called me with a "wake-up" call on the day of our last final, so I called her back afterwards to thank her and I told her to have a nice summer. She seemed surprised and said, "Why do you say it like we won't see each over the summer?" I replied with, "Because the only reason we are seeing each other now is that we had classes. So take care, have fun and be safe."
So I've been moving on, chilling with my friends a lot more, focusing on my love for weightlifting and fitness... and a few weeks back, while I was partying at a friend's apartment in the city for his 21st birthday, I got a call from her at about 12am. I missed the call, but when I checked it, I figured it was a mistake, because she had only called once. The next night... I missed another call from her at about 1.00 am, but I was sleeping.
I accidentally pick up a call from her the next night, expecting a call from a girl that I'm currently dating on a casual basis. We make some small talk... and she says "I called you at such and such a time, blah blah etc." She then says "Do you know what day that was...?" I'm not sure what she's referring to, and she finally says that "That's the first night that we ever had sex." I don't really know what to make of that, so I just kind of laugh it off.
Well, she actually hasn't called for about a week now, but I was online the other day and she IMs me randomly out of nowhere saying "I took your quiz." She is referring to one of those stupid buddy quizzes, that I put on my Instant Messenger profile. I say "Oh, that's cool." She says "Yeah, but I got two wrong." And she makes one of those sad faces. I say "It's all good. I gotta get going though, talk to you later." She simply signs off.
I guess what I need to know is... is she showing regret that she broke it off with me? Signs that she might want to get back together, or that she simply misses talking to me? I am starting to enjoy the fact that I am single... but I still care for her a lot... and I still love her. I don't think I would just rush into a relationship with her again.. but just want to know how I should interpret these conversations with her.
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