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Old 21st May 2004, 9:30 PM   #1
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how about strip club?

Is it wrong to go to strip clubs by myself without my g/f?
I've been to strip clubs with my former g/f before and it adds another dimension, but my new g/f is not into looking at naked women.
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Old 21st May 2004, 10:09 PM   #2
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how about asking your gf if she's okay with you going without her. or if she's at all comfortable with the idea of you less than 1km from a strip club.

it also depends on why you are going there in the first place.
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Old 22nd May 2004, 5:46 AM   #3
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Is it wrong to go to strip clubs by myself without my g/f?
I think it's neither right or wrong in itself , but I think that if your girlfriend is okay with it, it's cool!!!

As LILUIL suggested, you should discuss it with her.
If she is not okay, and would get upset /be hurt with it, it's up to you to decide what to do, but I reccomend that if you decide to go you should be honest about it.

Going behind her back if she lets you know she wouldn't want you to go, *that* would be wrong, IMO.
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Old 22nd May 2004, 9:44 AM   #4
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I agree with Pyra. Talk to her then decide. Above all, be honest about it.
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