[Galstormy]

First off, I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 47. My bfriend & I went out to dinner one night and there were a lot of people there for the prom. He said "I don't need to be seeing these 17 and 18 year old girls in prom dresses." I asked why and he said "It's a turn on!"


Then about 3 weeks later we went out to dinner with some of my friends and to the left of our table was a table full of young sorority girls. He repeatedly kept looking over there over and over.


I didn't say anything about either incident until later. I told him that both things upset me - that it is disrespectful and I can't deal with that kind of thing. I also told him that no one has ever treated me like that before.


He apologized. Should I have even said anything or was I right to voice my concerns?