[Nameless]

ok, dis is horrible. i finally met a girl. she invited me to her place today and i had to bring a couple friends wit me to help me from messing up. (she told me to bring em). Ok. my problem is .. well being shy. BUt its not like the average shy. I mean i cudnt even talk to her or even look at her cuz i was too nervous.And everytime she got close to me or touched me, id like freeze up. So a group of us went to a restauraunt. and i still didnt talk to her cuz i thought she was talkin wit her friend. And when it was time to order food, i didnt know whether or not i should buy food for her. cuz i mean, wut if she doesnt want food or yea, and i was too scared to ask if she wanted anything. But i didnt get nething cuz i dont like eating in front of ppl. So the group of us left and i still didnt talk to her cuz i thought she was talkin wit her friend and didnt wanna be interrupted. And so the day ended and i left. So.. um... ne1 know how i'm supposed to get over this fear and shyness of girls?
I mean, i have had a girlfriend in the past b4, but it was pretty much the same as today.

[advicegirl]

Wow, I guess you are really shy. No offence. I think that maybe you should try waving to her from afar and most important always smile and say hi. Try aso not to think about what everyone else thinks of you, becus sometimes that is on e of the reasons people get shy. I think if you say hi to her and try to find out things shes interested and talk about it, I think you will to just fine. I am sure she will understand. Some people are shy more then others, but if you really like someone then you have to take action and just go for it and not worry what everyone else thinks. Sometimes its better if your not with your friends. Maybe if it was just you 2 it would be easier to get to know one another. Good luck, and I hope I was a help.
advicegirl

It seemsto me that you have social anxiety disorder.
thats what i've got....cept urs seems more intense.
Take this test tosee if you got it:
http://www.paxil.com/test/st_sai.html
I gotta take medicine to get over mine and do group therapy.
but it helps...
hope this helps too.
=)