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Old 7th April 2004, 5:41 AM   #1
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please help me

well i kno that this might sound weird,but here goes.
i have this like, boyfriend and well, he likes to be on bottom during sex,and he likes it rough how do u be on top and please a guy who likes it rough?
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Old 7th April 2004, 9:10 AM   #2
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Sounds to me like you're going to have to turn into a mean, lean sex machine! Best to talk to him and find out exactly what he's looking for. Sounds to me like he just wants to lay there and let you do all the work.
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Old 7th April 2004, 10:01 AM   #3
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get a whip....

also, is willing to do stuff that you like as well? or is it always gonna be you up top?
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Old 7th April 2004, 11:24 AM   #4
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Tape sandpaper to your butt?
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Old 7th April 2004, 3:34 PM   #5
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Get a copy of Different Loving. It's usually in stock at Barnes and Noble.

In the meantime, I've got to ask: does this do anything for you at all? If you're open-minded, and you like him, why not explore and have fun? A lot of older women, especially, really relish having the upper hand once in a while. But if you're just going through the motions (so to speak), maybe this guy isn't for you. Sexual incompatibilities can be very difficult in the long run, unless you're both committed to the relationship.
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Old 7th April 2004, 3:35 PM   #6
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Tape sandpaper to your butt?
LMAO! Now this is something I had never thought of before.
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Old 7th April 2004, 4:15 PM   #7
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Re: please help me

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how do u be on top and please a guy who likes it rough?
Pull his hair

Slap him across the face

Tie his hands up to the posts or whatever

Don't let him kiss you, push him away when he tries

Pinch/pull/squeeze his nipples

Tell him how much of a weak little bitch he is

Basically things of this nature should work I would think.
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Old 7th April 2004, 4:23 PM   #8
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Re: Re: please help me

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Pull his hair

Slap him across the face

Tie his hands up to the posts or whatever

Don't let him kiss you, push him away when he tries

Pinch/pull/squeeze his nipples

Tell him how much of a weak little bitch he is

Basically things of this nature should work I would think.
They worked for me. I'm off to take a cold shower....
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Old 7th April 2004, 4:30 PM   #9
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I like it when the gal is ontop.....and she lets you know she's in control!
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Old 7th April 2004, 4:30 PM   #10
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Re: Re: Re: please help me

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They worked for me. I'm off to take a cold shower....
And wideawake turns off the computer and goes home after a job well done.

FIN.
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Old 7th April 2004, 8:21 PM   #11
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ROFLMAO these are great,what a way to have a laugh and learn a few things while I'm at it..
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Old 8th April 2004, 1:39 AM   #12
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i understand all this and all i just dont really kno how to move and all and stuff like that.
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Old 8th April 2004, 10:03 AM   #13
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i understand all this and all i just dont really kno how to move and all and stuff like that.

just ride him and move different ways until he looks like he likes it.

I have been with a couple of women who rode me like a pro.

I never let my wife get on top anymore; she was gained so much weight I'm afraid of getting a broken hip!!
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Old 8th April 2004, 10:52 AM   #14
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just ride him and move different ways until he looks like he likes it.

I have been with a couple of women who rode me like a pro.

I never let my wife get on top anymore; she was gained so much weight I'm afraid of getting a broken hip!!
Quick tip for those who are have mobility problems (weight related or joint impairment) LAWN FURNITURE!

Use an outdoor chaise lounge - without arms. put a comfortable blanket over the bends in the frame (or use duct tape) to keep them from pinching the skin, and place a comfortable padded seat cushion on the chaise. Then the woman can straddle the man with her feet on the ground and not have to worry about hurting her knees, losing her balance, or being too heavy. Tie scarves to the top so that she can hold on to them (like reins) to keep her balance. Please, please, please, don't ask me how I know this---- just trust me, it works.

Oh, I LOVE the sandpaper on the butt idea! LOLOL!
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Old 8th April 2004, 10:58 AM   #15
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Ambiegirl,

Do what wideawake said, and also try this: When you're on top you can wrap his legs up with yours so that you're pinning his legs and hips and pushing yourself -hard- onto him, and you can lean over so you can bite his neck, shoulder, etc. Put your thighs outside his thighs, then wrap your ankles underneath and around to pin his legs at the bottom of his shins. If you do it right he'll be sore for a day or two
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