[lisapisa]

I'm wondering what you think of a 42 year old man, married for 14 years, who insists that it's OK to go out to a bar with his single friend after golf or hockey games and stay out until as late as 1 or 2 in the morning? This is an otherwise responsible person (though not the most devoted husband in the world, I've come home from business trips to find him out having fun instead of being here to greet me at 10 or 11 at night). Anyway, he's not a drunk or a couch potato. This is a bad habit that has continued throughout our marriage. I'm 45 and still good looking and in need of love and companionship. Is there ANY WAY to combat this behavior? Talking gets me nowhere. I'd especially like to hear from men about this. Thanks. By the way, we do not have children, or I probably would have left years ago for their sake.