[InmannRoshi]

I've only been here a few months, but I've noticed that there is a lot of snooping around done in regards to looking on your SO's hard drive, or listening in on people's phone calls and things like that. Especially in regards to catching husbands looking at porn or going to strip clubs and things. I mean, most people I know would consider it a violation of privacy if you were to read their journal without permission. So what's the line of distinction between reading someone's journal and searching on their hard drive for pictures or listening in on their phone calls when they are talking to their friends ??

So, since I've never been married, I'm just wondering ... is there any limits on personal privacy between mates in a marriage (or longterm relationship) or is everything an open book. I mean, I don't know. I'm asking.