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Old 23rd March 2004, 5:47 PM   #1
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Ok, I married a woman who has been unfaithful in her last two marriages and with her boyfriend before me. I guess you can say it was a stupid move for me to marry her. After being married for only 2 months many things started to change, the first was our sex life dwindled from every other day to once a week and sometimes twice a week. My questions are a bit technical but can't seem to find an answer so I figured I would try it here.

I conducted a semen detection test on her underwear and found some interesting results. We had sex last on Sunday Night 3-14-04 and did not have sex all week long, which is apparently the new thing with her. So I conducted a test on Fri night's underwear 3-19-04 which is changed daily and was brand new as we bought them that week. Is it possible the my semen remained inside her all week long? She absolutely denies any sexual activity but I have seen her to be a big liar to others in the past so I have to question her.

I've sent the underwear, sample and results off to the lab to confirm the results and if positive I guess I'm going to have to sport the DNA Comparison test to check if it could possibly be me that I have detected.

Anyone with any advice or comments please help.
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Old 23rd March 2004, 6:27 PM   #2
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A few things for you:

1) It is highly unlikely that detectable quantities of semen would remain five days after intercourse, unless she remained bedridden and horizontal, without bathing. Under normal circumstances, gravity and normal baths and showers, combined with vaginal secretions, will clean away all detectable traces.

2) Testing your wife's underwear for semen is one of the creepiest things I have ever heard of. And guess what? If she uses condoms or even pantyliners, she'll pass this test even while she's doing the local football team.

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I guess you can say it was a stupid move for me to marry her.
I don't know if marrying her was stupid, but marrying her and expecting her to change her behavior from promiscuity to monogamy and from dishonesty to truthfulness was...shall we say, less than swift.

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Old 23rd March 2004, 8:05 PM   #3
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Question A what test

Where and how did you go about this test? What's the cost? Why not stick your tongue on it, you got to know what she tastes like, if it is different, spit it out!
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