[Sundaymorning]

I just wanted to say that if you are in the beginning of your relationship and you feel this way, it goes away as the relationship goes on. So have no worries.
I noticed this with my relationship. At first, I was worried that I couldnt keep his eye, etc...(just a normal insecure worry for me)...but as time has gone on, our love has blossomed, respect, etc grows....the insecurity just went out the window.
so dont worry!

[Kate]

i agree with what you are saying...i thought all my jealousy and insecurity was going out the window....until i spilled my guts and felt horrible after. my guy made me feel great, but then i took it a step further...and i pushed and pushed and pushed...self-fulfilling profecy....i am succeding in pushing him away because i am in love with him and fear losing him emotionally. i have emotional problems, but i'm very smart so i am hoping i can intellectualize this enough to learn...please, any advice on a relationship (3months new) that is hanging by a fingernail?