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Next year, you're going off to High School.
It doesn't get ANY easier, eighth grade is primetime. Next year you're going to be a freshman, and you're girl is going to be eyeing the seniors. Put yourself in your position in the future, and realize how you're going to rue the day you passed this girl up.
Things to remember:
1. If she rejects you, a relationship would have been impossible anyway. So you either have no relationship, no relationship with a chance to move on, or a relationship. There's only one bad choice, and that's doing nothing.
2. There's no shame in liking a girl. Your friends can't truly make fun of you, and you're not going to look like an idiot--you're not second graders anymore, you're AT the age in which liking girls is cool, you can't be seen as anything BUT cool if you express an interest in them.
3. If you are rejected, and you handle it well, as in, politely shrugging it off as her loss, you've still sent a message--that you're out on the market, and as long as you see yourself as attractive and desirable, others will as well.
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