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Old 24th February 2004, 5:49 PM   #1
Mike_H
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Question She gave back the engagement ring 2 months after I gave it to her....Help Please

Well here goes, Me and Jennifer have been together for 8years since i was 16 and she was 14, High school sweethearts. We have alot in common and we have always been close.
I'M not a jealous man what so ever i never hold her back I don't say anything when she dances with other guys I encourage her to be as free as much as possible accept the one rule DON'T CHEAT ON ME thats it. we are both from a small town in nova Scotia Canada and we moved to the big city of Calgary about a year ago both of us have good careers and social life's. I asked her to marry me during the Christmas that just past she was so happy and in love. The reason that it took me so long to ask is because i had nothing to offer her I was pumping gas and she was a cashier together our combined income was maybe 16000.00 a year but we were so happy and in love, daily she told me she couldn't live without me and we talked about kids marriage and owning a house. Now we make about 75000.00 a year she works for a big law firm and i work for a major bank. On Saturday the 21st of February at 10:24am she gave my ring back and said she wasn't sure and was wondering alot it I'm the one for her and she's been wondering what else is out there, and that she doesn't know if she wants kids, and that it feels like our relationship has just become a comfort blanket. We are still together she says she still loves me and that she's still in love with me but she wants to remain BF and GF. Is it just cold feet will she come back to me or is this just building up to an inevitable end. I'M hurting so bad right now any advice from anyone would be greatly appreciated
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