[ldybg51]

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What I did... Set up two phones one room that are on same phone line. Suprise your spouse or boyfriend when they get thier with these instructions. Call so-and so right now and have a conversation with her. Have a notpad right there in case you want him or her to say something to this other person you will need to write it down. DO NOT let them give you away in anyway before the truth comes out. Have a game plan in mind as to how you want the conversation to go. Something not overly suspicious that will bring out the truth. I made my husband say this "She is getting suspicious of me cheating what should I do. I need to tell her something but I dont know what to say" Then the other person should spill the beans. Do not let the spouse leave the room under any circumstances before he makes the call. especially if he owns a cell phone. You should only do this if you definitely want to find out and prepare yourself for the truth and decide how you want the relationship to go after this.

In my case I forgave him with conditions, he did not meet those conditions and I left him because I felt he must not love me if he does not care enough to meet these very small desires. I just wanted him to be more romatic and show me that he loved me and he not once even called just to say I love You or bought me a card or even picked me a flower.

Obviously this only works if you know a specific person (my case) or have a cell phone number called frequently (most cases)

Good luck!