[CaSaS]

hi all. this is my 1st time posting a mesagem but yeah, i need some advvice from u guys.MyGf and i broke up one day b4 her b-day, the reason was cuz she needed some time, her own time, don't have to worry about any1, that really made me sad, cuz i fell 4 her so bad, its been a month and we haven't talk or seen eachother, well actually i went to her place one day, cuz i wanted to see her. ive talk to 1 of her closest friends and she says that monica still loves me and feels sad cuz im hurt, and she also told her that she didn't know why i went 2 her place if i knew already that she doesn't want anything 2 do w/me. and i don't want 2 date other girls rite now, by this time im staring to get over her, but at the same time i want 2 be w/ her. she also said that we could talk after along time had pass, and maybe we could start over. and even get married and stuff. we had so many "kodak moments"together, that i don't think im going to be able 2 do those same things again. PLEZZ I NEED UR HELP!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!

[katydid]

I think she is right. Both of you need to grow up and live alittle before you decide on anything as big as marriage. If she is the right girl for you and you are the right man for her, A little time away from each other won't hurt. Take it from me, I got married very young (19) and I don't think that it would've hurt either my husband or me to wait a little longer. Be young Have FUN!!!!!!!

[carla]

Don't play the he said she said he said game with your friends or her friends. What's with the she says that monica still loves me and feels sad cuz im hurt,
and she also told her that she didn't know why i went 2 her place if i knew already that she doesn't want anything 2 do w/me. So what is it does she love or does she not want anything to do with you? Honestly I would move on you are probably much to young to be settling down. Go out date alittle have some fun. Get marriage out of your head if you are having problems like this now .......Go directly to divorce, do not pass marriage, do not collect bills and 3 kids.

Have fun enjoy life.