[xxbrokentoyxx]

My problem involves the typical female thing jealousy. I just started my first real relationship with this guy whos great but a couple years older than me so he has more experince. His past girlfriend he was with for 3 1/2 years and he really really loved her.

They went through a lot together that only the two of them can understand and then she got pregnant. When she was like 2 months pregnant her and her mom moved far away. Well me and my guy were friends for a lil bit before we started dating so we would get drunk together and he would talk about how much he loved her etc.

Now that we're dating i'm really paranoid about her. SHe still calls and talks to his mom, and she's trying to mess with his head. She came up here for christmas, and we had been staying at his mom's for a month or two. anyway she had the audacity to yell downstairs while the two of us were laying in bed. "she was like come say goodbye to your son" he had this smile on his face when he first heard her voice, and things havent been the same since. I guess the baby looks like him even though we're not sure.

Now i feel weird about it all the time, like whenever a baby commercial comes on i feel like he's thinking about her, and we were talking one night and filling out this couple questionaire for fun and it asked our favorite song and he said this one that reminds him of her. he didnt say that but i know that the song does. he brings her up a lot, like out of the blue, and even though she doesnt live here it feels like she's here. im scared about the next time she comes up here. i dont know what to do. i cant get over this jealousy.

the worst is when i get jealous i take it out on him and get mad at him for no reason
please please helP@