[LuckyStar]

just a little history of where i am in my situation, i was involved with a married man and after visiting this site i gradually stopped being intimate in Sept '03 and haven't slept with him since. If it wasn't for this site i probably would have drifted back and forth due to the fact, this is a difficult subject to discuss with others.

In the beginning, i tried to cut him off, not call, not have any contact, however, after a few days he called and we've minimized our contact to just calling and we've probably met (in a public place) briefly approx. 5-7 times in the last 4 months.

He's expressed that he has strong feelings for me and calls me everyday, just out of concern, to see how I'm doing and we don't spend hours on the phone it's usually for a couple of minutes but because he calls every day or every other day, I'm trying my best to get over him therefore, I do not call him other than if he leaves a message and I would just return his call, however, I just want to move on from the situation and would like some advice on a realistic way of doing it.

Changing my telephone number/cell number is something I will not consider because I am not in a financial situation to do that. I don't have caller id.
Overall, I don't want to be childish about the situation, and i don't want to be rude but I'm at the point where i'm sick and tired of being in this situation.
I've learned one thing, never to get involved with a married man, it's not worth it.

In regards to the telephone calls and him wanting to see me, I would really like for it to stop, so i can move on, any advice on

1. What can I say to him?

and
2. After expressing that I want him to stop calling me and he calls me what action do I
take?


Help!!!