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Old 23rd December 2003, 11:28 PM   #1
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Cool Im a new member
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Hey guys! Im new here and in a long distance relationship, Im in NY, hes in FL. I look forward to finally sharing some feelings with people who might understand!
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:11 AM   #2
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Welcome Allycat.... hope you enjoy your stay!!
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:18 AM   #3
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Hi and welcome!

Is yours an LDR because you were together and someone had to move for work or school, or have you started out LDR?
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:39 AM   #4
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We actually met online. I have known him for a year now. Its a difficult thing to do because I have to trust someone. Im really NOT good at that.
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:54 AM   #5
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Hey Ally!!!

Welcome to the land of the Shackers!!!! What part of FL does your guy live in? (you can PM that info if you want to!!)

Get to know the cool people in here.....and you'll have a great time.

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Old 24th December 2003, 12:55 AM   #6
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'Nother question, then. Have you met yet?
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:20 AM   #7
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Oh yes I have! If not, I wouldnt be with him.

He is supposted to be coming in Jan. to visit...although he has cancelled on me before. I went to see him in June. Its been WAY to long. And hard for me. I dont know how much longer I can do this.
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Old 24th December 2003, 4:00 AM   #8
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Hey AllyKat,

Welcome, welcome!

Sorry I didn't acknowledge you earlier. I'm new here too.

I just tonight was told/figured out how to "post quotes". Lame I know!

Your gonna like it lots here. The people are great!

See Ya!
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Old 24th December 2003, 4:06 AM   #9
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I'm new here too

It only says Senior Member because I post like I have no life.
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Old 24th December 2003, 4:10 AM   #10
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I was wondering how some of you got the "senior member" title.

I'll probably end up being a "post-toastie"!
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Old 24th December 2003, 4:57 AM   #11
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It happened on my third day, so I'm almost positive it's a post number thing.
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Old 24th December 2003, 5:01 AM   #12
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It's 100 posts, I believe. They don't have a Grand Poohbah of Posting, but if they did, the honour would go to Tony, who is fast closing in on 12,000!
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:41 PM   #13
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I'm new also...I think I'll make a post about this too.
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Old 24th December 2003, 12:55 PM   #14
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Ally, is there any specific reason you're sticking with this long distance relationship thing?

I mean...I honestly can't understand how people can do this, I think it would be too painful, not seeing someone for so damn long. I'm a patient guy, but I have my limits.
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Old 24th December 2003, 3:06 PM   #15
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I stick with him, because I honestly do care about him and he is supposed to be moving here next year.

We already had the whole talk of me saying I cant do this any longer...so he is trying to move quicker.

I dont know how it will work, I dont know if he will ever move. I mean, I hope he does....but, if I can live without my daughters father I can live without any man.

I thank you for your welcomes and wish all of you a happy holiday season!
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