A week seems like an eternity when you're waiting for an answer but it is not. You have to shut your impatience down.
He said:
I am sorry for being silent this week. Sometimes I just have to be alone, to think things over. There are a lot of things that are worrying me these days
You may just be adding to his burden by pressing him for answers. You have to chill. If a person wants peace, you only bug him by bugging him. If anything, he'll like you less. Find something else to occupy your thoughts. Journal, if you wish; this means you get all the thoughts out on paper but you keep them for yourself; at least you give yourself a bit of peace by putting them down.
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I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to my fellow creatures, let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Should I just let him know that I understand him and say good bye to him then
-Is it a right thing to do?
-Is it ok?
:'(
(PS: DonTomaso, thank you so much for your support......I'm crying deep down inside my heart.....now I cann't control my tears anymore....my face is all wet :'(.
Though, I think you are right that I just simply say that I understand him and say good bye to him -again, thank you Don!)
I wouldn't say goodbye to him, maybe that you understand what he meant by his email and wish him luck in life. Don't say goodbye b/c it closes off the door.
So it's ok that I let him know that I understand him and say good bye to him then
-Is it a right thing to do?
-Is it ok?
:'(
(PS: DonTomaso, thank you so much for your support......I'm crying deep down inside my heart.....now I cann't control my tears anymore....my face is all wet :'(.
Though, I think you are right that I just simply say that I understand him and say good bye to him -again, thank you Don!)
So it's ok that I let him know that I understand him and say good bye to him then
-Is it a right thing to do?
-Is it ok?
:'(
(PS: DonTomaso, thank you so much for your support......I'm crying deep down inside my heart.....now I cann't control my tears anymore....my face is all wet :'(.
Though, I think you are right that I just simply say that I understand him and say good bye to him -again, thank you Don!)
I wrote to my ex-bf to let him know that I unerstand him and wish him all the good luck in life. And he wrote back:
"Please don't ever think that your emails are a bother to me; and your email was not foolish. I am always glad to hear from you. I think right now is a difficult time for both of us. I know we both enjoy being together; but it is just difficult right now. Understand me, I really do care about you. And I am always willing to listen when you want to talk. Like I said to you, and you said back to me, things will turn out ok. Take care."
So I should not feel guilty for hurting him anymore, right!?
And just politely reply and say that a nice good bye to him, right!?
...should I say good bye to him and thank you for his kindness...???
Is he just being polite and is completely over with me!?
I still care for me too, but it seem like he is saying that he care for me to be polite, but is in fact over with me (that is what I feel right now, am I right?!
......right now I'm so sad & weak, naive & dump.....keep hoping......
I need somebody just be hard on me and tell me straightly the truth..........I have made a mistake before and I felt bad and regreted in whole year. I just don't want to make another mistake.
Tell me that he is over with me, that I'm just so dump and naive about thinking of him all the time, while he might already start to date other girls....
What should I do.......my mind & my heart are enemies right now (my mind say that I have to move on and forget about him, but my heart say that I want to know what he thinks, feels and I still care for him.......Oh my God, what should I do with myself.....I'm going crazy now.......:'(
By what the letter sounds like...it's over, unfortunately. I am so sorry.
He cares about you with all of his heart and really, truly loves you...but he can't take any more pain and heartache, so he wants to break up for a long time. He wants to get completely over you so he can get on with his life.
Can you do something to distract yourself? Can you spend time with friends? Can you get yourself involved in a movie or TV show? You do yourself no good at all by thinking about this nonstop. You need to do something to take him off your mind for a while.
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