[d1410]

I'm really confused and angry...but maybe this will make sense to others out there.

I started dating a guy a few weeks ago. We seemed really compatible, physically attracted to one another and both happy to have met someone new. We went on 3 dates and things heated up pretty fast and we ended up sleeping together on the last date. Yes..last date.

It seemed to be wonderful but I didn't hear from him after that. I left him 2 messages this past week, in case he had lost my phone #, etc. Why is it that he doesn't think he should even call to say SOMETHING to me, so that I can understand why he abruptly stopped talking to me.

I know, I know...we took it too fast but if he just wanted sex....why did he act like he was interested in a relationship??? Why did he say he would return something of mine after the fact when he doesn't bother to call?

How do I trust new people that I meet? there weren't ANY signs to signal that he was a complete user. Any advice would be helpful..

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