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Do I tell him I have feelings for him???
I worked with a guy for about 6 months...he always seemed real cocky to me...but knew I found him very attractive. I ended up moving desks and sitting real close to him. We started talking via e-mail and then started taking breaks together. There was a HUGE chemistry b/t us and we were VERY attracted to each other. We ended up meeting at a bar one night and I went home with him. The next day he said "I want you to know that you are really sweet and you are a gorgeous." I said "okay...AND"..he just said "I just wanted to tell you that since I am probably never gonna see you again" (HELLO, WE WORK TOGETHER) The next day we went back to work and we still talked but were a little distant. I wanted more and he wasn't ready for it..that was the subject of our e-mails. Then, one day he tells me he is..and I had to tell him I was seeing someone. (That relationship is done at this point). In August I was laid off, and I talked to him a few days after that..he told me to give him a call so we could hang out sometime..well, THIS Saturday night I went out and he was there...he told me he was there with his girlfriend and me being DRUNK said "why the h*ll do you have a g/f NOW...yet weren't ready 5 months ago"...he claimed I didn't "want him"...anyway, I find myself extremely attracted to him and don't know if I should pursue anything with him. I know he has a girlfriend, but they didn't seem very happy together and I don't know their "status". I do NOT wanna push in on any relationship..I wouldn't do that to this girl, but I kind of want him to know that I DID want him and DO have feelings for him...should I just leave it alone??
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