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feel your pain
I think it depends on what you want to do. If you are willing to get hurt again and drag this out than I would give her a call. But you should understand that she is holding all the cards and will for a long time. You have to accept that she is going to say things that will really hurt you and you may not understand why. She will not be true to her word and not be sympathetic to your pain. She may not return your phone calls or want to talk for extended periods of time. Think of it as her way of testing you out to see if you really have changed. It may be like this for a long time and you will most likely get extremely frustrated. You will question why you are putting yourself through this and if it is really worth it.
Or you can not call and get even stronger. You are probably not too far away from completely getting over her. You will then be in a much stronger position with her or someone else who enters your life.
I'm in a very similar situation and have held off calling for 3 weeks, minus one surprise visit. I am trying to hold out for a few more weeks and hope that with the holidays coming up she will be more eager to want to spend time with me. And even though I know what's coming, I will call her again, get hurt again and start the healing process all over. It is more comfortable to continue to do this than to accept my life without her.
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