[afyreinside848]

Ok I am 17 and she is 16.We met at school and just kind of clicked together.Well from the start I knew that she was stuck on this ******* that didnt care anything about her other than sex, but I still fell for this girl.We are ALWAYS together, at school, away from school etc..where one is;the other is somewhere close.A few weeks passed and I told her how I felt, and to my surprise I found out she had a crush on me.everyone told us and still tells us what a "cute" couple we make (even though we arent anymore, but it is hard to tell).Well things were going good for awhile, I got my first kiss, for 6 hours I might add (note:I was in military school 3rd-8th grade, so girls werent really in my life untill I was put in public high school, ex-marine at age 14, w00t! ) and so shes pretty special to me, the first woman in my life.Well then the **** hit the fan, she had sex with that guy mentioned earlier in the post at a party and then expected me not to be mad about it, because we werent officially going out but still, we *were* a couple untill that happened.So now were "just friends".Its wierd because its exactly like were still a couple because we still are always together.But anway since all that happened She's gotten over that ******* now,completely this time, but she went out with some other guy,totally ignoring me and my feelings, which they just broke up tonight btw.Only lasted 2 weeks. So what am I supposed to do?Im tired of sitting back and watching her all over these other guys.Is there ANYTHING I can say to her? plz help me out. Theres been alot of girls trying to get with me but I kind of withdraw because I'm so stuck on this one, and I refuse to get over her, I guess its the whole first kiss thing but I really do love this girl and she just see's me as a "hot friend". Wtf? If Im "hot" and she used to have a crush on me,and Im someone that she likes spending alot of time with, then why cant we go out!?I dont understand.Is there anything I can say or do to bring back her crush on me? I swear I think sometimes Im more mature then everyone else in high school.I hate this drama crap why cant everything be normal!? Drama gets on my ****ing nerves not to mention its cheesy as hell.

[SoleMate]

Is there anything I can say or do to bring back her crush on me?

Like a magic potion, maybe? I'm afraid they don't exist outside the movies and fairy tales. You can only control the feelings of one person...yourself.

Like many people here at Loveshack, you are now experiencing the anguish of no longer requited first love. Wallow in the profound, yet painful, sensation so you have a bittersweet memory for when you're a worn out old man.

This girl doesn't appear to be a "one-man woman" to put it mildly, so you can either 1) be her "always available backup", or 2) start to become a man by mastering your feelings for this girl and directing your mind, if not your heart, elsewhere.

BTW...have you thought, that if she's this active sexually at age 16, she may very well pass STDs to you, or experience a pregnancy?