Cheating wont stop... taking him back again

padch

Well it looks like I'm taking him back AGAIN after the same story and promises he can stop... I know he can't and yet I see he really has a problem he can't control I just don't know how to or to get him help... the last thing I can understand is lying and cheating on someone I love but he does it again and again... I know he needs therapy and the depths of his other lives and relationships are beyond normal affairs... they are so involved and there are so many and yet I'm the one constant... I know I love the man and amazingly i still after all the lies and infidelity believes he loves me I just have to get him help and get him to believe he needs help... every time I think he really believes he can stop on his own... Any suggestions??? Interventions that worked??