[GIZMO]

Hello,

I have a problem, AGAIN... and I need a little help..

I moved out from my ex of 7 years ( he broke up with me ) anyways, I have a feeling he is with someone knew.. In fact, she is 10 years younger then him, and she works with me..

Well when I lived with my ex, all the bills were in my name and I always paid all of the bills.. Before I moved out, I got almost all of the bills into his name.. The problem I am having is that the cable is still in my name and I just got a bill for $112.00 .. He has ordered 10 adult movies... I know that in time he will pay me back for it, but, Its not right that I have to get a bill for the cable..

He told me that he was going to call the cable company and get the cable out of my name and into his name.. I was trying to be nice about it all, so he would not have to pay a connection fee.. I have been asking him for 3 weeks now to call the cable company.. He keeps telling me he will call, but to this day still has not called the cable comp.. Well, in order for me to get the cable out of my name I have to go back to my old apt ( where is he living ) and take the cable box back to the cable comp.. I can do this tomorrow when he is at work since i still have the key..

Do you think I should leave him a note, telling him that I could not wait anymore for him to call the cable comp? Or is it wrong for me to just take the cable box and leave the house?

I really do not want to talk to him anymore, or see him, and I really do not feel I have anything to say to him.. After all, He will not tell me that he is with this other girl, which makes it harder on me..

I am not trying to play tit for tat, but I can not afford to keep paying his bills either..

What do you all think??

[Thor]

You've given him plenty of time to change the bill to his name, and since he hasn't then it shouldn't come as a complete surprise to him when you remove the cable box. That doesn't mean that he won't be surprised though. Speaking from a guys perspective, I know I can be reminded more than once about a certain thing and it still won't be done until who knows when. Your ex may act a bit surprised or even shocked, but you've given him ample time to get this done and he hasn't. Go ahead and leave him a note though just to keep it civil like you've been doing.

[VASH THE STAMPEDE]

Go in take YOUR cable box back, you could leave a note at your own option.
It's not wrong for you to take whats under your name back .
Because if he lets it pile up, it'll go on YOUR credit report.
As far as he goes he's trash so feel relieved that your not with him and move on .
I know it could get hard but he's no good and don't pounder who he's with just be glad that he's off your hands.




I sign off wishing you the best in life.