My boyfriend is having a baby with another woman & I think that I love him.

liliflora

I'm not sure if I'm considering everything that I should be in this situation.

I've been seeing a guy for about three months now and he is having a baby with an ex-girlfriend. He already has a six year old with this woman that was a result of a one-night stand. So he 'stepped up to the plate' and became a wonderful father. Since then this guy has been linked (but not in a serious relationship ) to this girl and has not had many opportunities to meet other woman until now.

So it wasn't a big deal that he had slept with his son's mother a month before we started dating. She has become pregnant as a result.

My biggest problem is that this guy is the most wonderful guy that I've ever met. We share so many of the same loves and passions in life, and seem to be intuitively in sync with each other. If it wasn't for these other circumstances, I would be positive that "He is the guy for me".

His family loves me and is supporting us, my family really doesn't approve and is having nothing to do with him. Am I considering the full picture and the seriousness of the situation. Should I stick it out with this wonderful guy or should I cut my losses and move on with my life. So far I am taking the wait and see attitude about it. He doesn't know what kind of a role he'll be playing in this childs life and believes as I do that it deserves the best.


Please help me sort this out!