In Search Of...Having a hard time forming friendships or finding companions, lovers, or associates? Is someone pursuing an unwelcome relationship with you? Talk about your experiences here.
Well im a girl, and i know (since I've had many many crushes!) That the girl is accually looking for you to make the first move! The one thing that irritates me about guys is that they're always so shy! Basically, your not alone! So maybe at a dance, ask her to dance, or just go up to her and ask her out, becasue I know she would be very happy that you MYM!(made your move!)
Do your thing MDog, don’t be shy, that wont get you anywhere! Just know that it’s ok to approach girls. Don’t be worried! They are expecting it and more often than not are disappointed when a guy is too shy TO ASK so, go for it!
Don't you think thay maybe you are a little too young to be wrapped up in "guys" yet? When was the last time you went to a friends house for a slumber party? You are way too young to be worrying about guys. Be a kid while you still can. Trust me, when you are my age you will wish you had those days back again.
-Haley
Ps- MDog, don't be shy, it flatters girls when you approach them...wait how old are you? If you are under 17 then go back to hanging out with your buddies, go play some video games or go ride your bike!
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Last edited by Amazon22; 24th August 2003 at 2:47 AM..
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omg i am sick of all the age comments! You dont know what kids who are my age! How about you worry about what people are asking and stay away from what doesn't matter!
She already knows I like her but she doesn't look like she wants anything to do with me. She ingnores me and gives me cold glances even though she is actually really nice. So Gwen I don't think she wants me to make the first move like you said. But I still want to talk to her about this but her friends won't let me get a single minute alone with her.
GO for it man.
If you get the friends line its better than never knowing.
Trust me Im in the same ship in these situations &im 23 & still have trouble breaking the ice.
Better to get rejected or accepted then to live with regret.You dont want to keep askin yourself what if because that will just put u deeper in the hole.
Damn it sucks for us Shy Guys.
Just do it get it off your chest youll thank me later.
I know how hard it is to come up with the conversation peace & fear looking like a bufoon so just do it the easy way with saying hi & tell her how lovely she looks or ask her somin about almost anything.
I have a couple suggestions for you. First, the worst that can happen is that her friends will laugh. That will make you both feel awkward (as it did for me and this girl I liked for awhile.) So she probably wont want it anymore than you do. This means the best thing would be to approach her and just say "can I speak to you for a minute" and make it sound like youd want it to be somewhere away from her friends (but dont sound scared). Then make your move. I just want to warn you however, that you shouldnt try to talk to her about this stuff online, thats always a bad thing to do, as people often lie online just to be nice, or people may interpret things differently. Thats my advice for you.
Do it in person because its more intimate & truethful.OVer the other means its may be easier to say but the awkwardness only increases because of them being easier.
since you stated that she already knows you like her...things wont get any better tahn this...sorry man
the fact that she knows, and you try to approach her to get to know her better...she will think you're just trying to hit on her or trying to get to know her better because you have a goal in mind.
If she didnt know you liked her, well..it'd be a different story, and it would be easier on you to be able to socialize with her.
The only advice i can give is take things slowly, dont rush into anything. Just say "hey, hi, whats up" if you ever see her. Then when she feels more comfortable around you and saying hi, hey back to you...then you can get to know her better by showing interest in her
Hey! If all of you think it is tough then try 50 plus. It sucks. but then it is ok because nothing in life matters but life itself anymore. I have seen more people die than if I was in Vietnam. Going to a funeral tommorrow. Excuse me, today. Just go for it! I didn`t. Was always too shy. Life can, and I mean seriously CAN, pass you by
She already knows I like her but she doesn't look like she wants anything to do with me. She ingnores me and gives me cold glances even though she is actually really nice.
That's because she really is nice. She doesn't want to lead you on so she is being cold and ignoring you. That's what a nice girl should do; a mean girl would give you attention and foster your hopes just so she could disappoint you later.
So, now it's your turn to be nice. Make it clear that you have accepted her rejection by ceasing to give her unwanted looks, attention, etc. Give her a break; in a couple of months, you should be over this.
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