[Summa-Luvin]

hi,
I have got this friend and she is bisexual, and i have really started 2 like her but does that mean im gay??
Im not attracted 2 girls at all, ive just started 2 get to know this girl and she is really nice.. and makes me laugh.
sum1 plz help, im quite confused

[Tony T]

YOU ASK: "I have got this friend and she is bisexual, and i have really started 2 like her but does that mean im gay??"

You have not provided sufficient data to make a determination of whether or not you may possibly be gay. A good start would be to advise if you have a penis or a vagina. Male or female (check one).

If you are seriously concerned about your sexual orientation, you should consult a qualified counsellor who can interview you and give a more accurate assessment. Now, if this girl is really nice and makes you laugh, I can say with absolute certainty that you are homo sapien.

i am not gonna get all complicated like the guy before me but it doesn't sound like ur a homo sexual it jus sounds like u got a good girl friend.

[karma]

Originally posted by Summa-Luvin
hi,
I have got this friend and she is bisexual, and i have really started 2 like her but does that mean im gay??
Im not attracted 2 girls at all, ive just started 2 get to know this girl and she is really nice.. and makes me laugh.
sum1 plz help, im quite confused

Do you feel like kissing her or things like that? How old are you? Do you like guys? Maybe you are bisexual. Bisexual is not the same thing as gay.

[Jamie31]

It doesn't neccesarily mean you are gay. You might just really connect with her on a friend level. Everything doesn't have to be about sex. Me and my best friend Jennifer were so close last year, that my husband and her boyfriend kidded us about being lesbians because we were so close. But you can have a really, really close friendship with someone without it being a sexual thing. And I think those are the best kinds of friendships - the ones where you can tell her anything and you are closer than sisters. That's probably what this is....no worries!!

[Clancy]

Summa-luvin, you said yourself, "I am not attracted to girls at all." That doesn't sound like a bisexual girl or a lesbian. That's your answer. Just because she's bisexual and you like being with her doesn't make you bi or lesbian. It just means you like her. There's a big difference, as I'm sure you know, between liking someone because they are funny, smart, pretty, charming, and cool, and wanting to have sex with them. So enjoy being with her then.