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Old 22nd November 2009, 6:21 AM   #1
Bradwagner
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Question Could these be why my relationships go sour?

Hey all!

ok, so I think I've might have found out somthing about why girls brake up with me..

I've had few girlfriends and dates in my life..but, everytime I get started in a relationship (dating also). We get started in the "what are your interests"..and for me MUSIC is basicly my life. I play the guitar (blues) but, I listen to Horrorcore music which believe it or not has helped me stoped me from killing myself. So anyways when I do get a date or a girlfriend I tell them I listen to that stuff.. and it starts to go sour right after that..I think thats the main reason they brake up with me..I guess it makes me look werid or somthing..but, im not to sure. Please remember it goes very well intil I tell em' that...I think they look it up or somthing and listen to it, and the lyrics in those songs are pretty bad but, its what I listen to.


Could that be why?
and just incase Ya'll dont know my favorite rapper is mars but, probly very scary to young women..not that I would EVER do anything in those lyrics but, maybe they get the idea I would or somthing?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0gQOF6hFmM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdOGvZWUL8s

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8PKBh9Kurc


These are my favorite songs by him...
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Old 22nd November 2009, 7:07 PM   #2
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who knows? Could be, is it that you impose your musical tastes on your girlfriends? I don't know, but i don't think you should worry about them, maybe you just need to stop trying to impose your music on them or find someone who likes the same stuff you do. Maybe its just that they don't dig that music and it frightens them. I hope this helps
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Old 22nd November 2009, 7:28 PM   #3
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Dont feed the troll plugging his crappy music.
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