[Buzz89]

Went out on third date with a woman that I'm getting to know. Both in mid 30's. Met through friend and common background so we have a lot in common from the start. We've had a lot of fun with each other on each date although no physical contact except for hugs. I was sensing that she wanted to take it slow (always engaged but no attempt at touching, she's a little shy). Last night we went out and late in the evening I mentioned to her that I was enjoying getting to know her and that I know it takes time to get to know someone. She agreed and said that it's important to take it slow. (she may have been hurt before, I'm not sure). I then said that I just wanted to let her know because I liked her and was attracted to her. She responded that she had fun on the last date and that she found me easy to talk to. But she said that I've met her when she has a lot going on in her life. We then talked about other stuff and just kind of moved on. I felt awkward for the rest of the time we spent together. When I asked about next weekend she was neutral. Didn't shoot me down but also didn't know how her plans looked yet and said that she would let me know (she's been very honest with me so I don't doubt her).

I'm happy with taking it slow but I'm worried that I threw some awkwardness into the mix when we've really had fun up to this point and are getting to know each other. We seemed to be building some momentum and then poof, let the air out of the bag so to speak.

Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, how did you continue. Ladies, how do you feel when a guy speaks too soon like this? I know I should relax and not pressure but I want to apologize for making it awkward all of the sudden. Any advice?