Is it paranoid to think some girls start to hate a guy simply because he didnt respond to their subtle sex offers?
They try to seduce him and when he doesnt give in (no rejection in order not to humiliate them just doesnt respond) they start to hate him.
Some times I was confronted by other girls, friends of some girl who supposedly had feelings for me probably. Her friend(s) told me to just make her happy by f@cking her.
First they were very pushy, aggressive about it like it is my fault their friend is not happy or what. So they were rude.
Second Im not a whore.
Third I dont think I would solve her problem. It would be even bigger unless I was really bad in bed or cried afterwards or something like that.
I just told them to mind their business and didnt give in. They f@acking hate me now. All of them. I can live with that. Im used to be hated but I would lie if I told you it doesnt bother me at all. Worst of all it is in a workplace. I go there to make money/save the world not to solve these dramas.
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Some girl likes you. And she wants you but you dont want her. She stops liking you and starts to hate you.
Well, nobody likes being rejected. Did you treat her badly in doing so i.e. talk trash about her behind her back, etc? Or you just ignored her advances? If the former, well, I can't blame her for having hard feelings. If the latter, it sounds as though she has a psychological problem and her friends are just taking her side, because she is a female and was rejected--they take it personally too, because women are usually more empathetic about these things.
Hopefully, she'll get over it. How old is this girl/woman? Sounds like she's fairly immature--then again, we all act stupid when we're infatuated.
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Surrounded by the beauty of Asian women, the animal is starting to come out. I'm filling boxer shorts like never before. OP, you know, if you say yes to her, I won't hate you
I think more men have this entitlement complex though. They get angry and blame their height, etc. for not getting dates. Then we have the George Sordini entitlement deal....look what he did.
Some times I was confronted by other girls, friends of some girl who supposedly had feelings for me probably. Her friend(s) told me to just make her happy by f@cking her.
First they were very pushy, aggressive about it like it is my fault their friend is not happy or what. So they were rude...
Wait a minute.
You're saying that her friends are pressuring you to do her?
This whole group sounds like hellcats (and not in a sexy way).
Well, nobody likes being rejected. Did you treat her badly in doing so i.e. talk trash about her behind her back, etc? Or you just ignored her advances? If the former, well, I can't blame her for having hard feelings. If the latter, it sounds as though she has a psychological problem and her friends are just taking her side, because she is a female and was rejected--they take it personally too, because women are usually more empathetic about these things.
Hopefully, she'll get over it. How old is this girl/woman? Sounds like she's fairly immature--then again, we all act stupid when we're infatuated.
As I wrote, I just ignored it.
She is 30 something as the rest. I avoid this age group for fling purposes...they tend to forget to take the pill
(and Shakespeare was FLAMING gay! It was obvious even to him.)
Nice quote.
What bothers me is that I would understand the hate if I humiliated her in some way but how can you go from love to hate just because someone doesnt want you? I know girls who I loved and they ignored me...but havent started to hate them...I loved them.
You're saying that her friends are pressuring you to do her?
This whole group sounds like hellcats (and not in a sexy way).
Its not like they blackmail me or something...you know girls and their subtle ways of casual words whispered now and then. But the word "do her" actually sounded.
I can deal with it. It just makes me wonder how can you become a "jerk" without doing a thing
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