[McGrupp]

i feel like she has my balls.

[McGrupp]

i gave them to her. gift wrapped.

[rickigal]

I gave him my self respect too. I pleaded and begged for him not to do this...said I would do anything. How pathetic is that? Well I am gaining back my self respect with NC. Even after he texted me asking How I was. I now am showing that I make the decisions for my own life. You can get it back. Don't contact her.

[EricaH329]

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i feel like she has my balls.

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i gave them to her. gift wrapped.

Take them back! She's not taking very good care of them.

[Ultiman]

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i feel like she has my balls.

damn cuz i was on course to make the same mistakes as u but luckily i went to the internet quick and found this forum and learned quickly wat not to do. THe best u can do is change from today forward. NC at all make it look like your life is doing great even if its a complete lie. Post pictures on facebook of you having fun. Work out make yourself look good do everything u can do to get ur dignity back. and if u talk to her LIE LIE LIE tell her ur feeling awesome and everything is great

[GrayClouds]

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i feel like she has my balls.

And every time you think this way you hand them to her again and again and again.

Every time you do something positive, exercises, read a a helpful book, journal, cook a good meal, hang with friends, do not drink or drug. post a message about something your doing that is good for yourself, ect, ect, ect you snatch those loves cockles, and shove them back into their little (or possible not so little, i don't really know you that well and nothing personal but really don't want to) nut sack to have them swing another day that way your own personal God meant for them.

[McGrupp]

thats funny.

i the last 2 times i talked to her i kept it cool, told her about my life, moving, traveling, etc. sent a pic of me in my costume on Halloween with friends

but still NC wouldve been better, because it just shows her that i care what she thinks.

[GrayClouds]

Originally Posted by McGrupp

thats funny.

i the last 2 times i talked to her i kept it cool, told her about my life, moving, traveling, etc. sent a pic of me in my costume on Halloween with friends

but still NC wouldve been better, because it just shows her that i care what she thinks.

Yes you coolly handed her your balls and kind enough to send her a picture of them dressed up for Halloween(where the dressed in drag as ovaries?)

Now tell me something your going to do tonight for yourself that will make tonight a bit better? ( and after you do it will be surprising how warm and comfortable to have those marbles back in their respected home...even if it just for a short visit but I suspect they will like the atmosphere and will want to come back again for a longer get together)

[McGrupp]

im seeing an old friend from college. im going to try not to talk about it at all because hes probably one of the only people i would call a mutual friend to both of us (though he hasnt talked to her since)

i met a really cute girl last night at the bar.

i should be like 60 days NC. instead im 2...

[McGrupp]

**** it. you know my friend who is training to be a therapist last night told me when she went and cheated last year she knew what she was doing. she knew she was ditching me to go hang with this guy and i let her. and i let her come back. and i shouldve left then.

I WANT MY BALLS!!!

[GrayClouds]

Originally Posted by McGrupp

im seeing an old friend from college. im going to try not to talk about it at all because hes probably one of the only people i would call a mutual friend to both of us (though he hasnt talked to her since)

Ding dong here comes your nuts for a visit(And f#ck it if you want to talk about her, do. Give yourself 10 min to talk and then move on.)

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i met a really cute girl last night at the bar.

Knock knock knock they are looking for an extended stay

Originally Posted by McGrupp

i should be like 60 days NC. instead im 2...

**** you just kicked them out again


Hurry up and tell me what your going to do tomorrow morning that is good for you so you can hurry up and invite them back.