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Is it easier for the dumper to keep contact with someone they broke up with than it is for the dumpee? My ex and i broke up at first by mutual agreement then i wanted to work things out he didnt, but he still wants to be freinds keep in contact and possibley get back together but he said he wasnt rushing into anyting. I started NC over a month ago and he has text me four times since then. I removed him off my facebook and he was upset about this and doesnt like when i say we wont talk. My question is this-Is it as confusing for him as it is me to remain freinds? is it easier for the one that doesnt want to work things out to keep contact? of is it just as hard and confusing for them?