[aloneatnights]

hi guys,i really need this spelling out, no holds barred time. been seeing a lovely guy for 6 months or so. met for sex which was good and always has been, which was fine to start with.
then he asked to be exclusive which we have been. then said he wanted to see me more which hasn't really happened.
he works a lot both weekdays and weekends which is his business and i'm not interfering with that.
anyway he is seperated but not divorced, lives an hour about away from me and always come down this way. i do not accomodate him at my place as it is not convenient which he knows although he has met my kids briefly, even coming with me to pick them up at school, at his suggestion.
the thing which is really bugging me is he has not invited me to his place to stay which would cut out the hotel bill and expenses.
he calls and texts any time of day and night
the issue with me is because he works all the time, i meet him when he wants to, although recently i have been doing my own thing and not being as available as i was. not playing games, just re introducing my own interests back into my life.
he did tell me he had been hurt in the past and is taking things very cautiously but i feel it is time to move up a gear or quit the relationship.
i don't love him because i feel there is nothing to go on at the moment but i do like him a lot.
he told me i had 'potential' which irked me no end as i am not the sort of person to hang around waiting, nor am i clingy.
so... what do you guys think? cut my losses or stick with it?