A buddy of mine that's been married a couple of years is an extremely jealous and probably a bit insecure. He alway snooping through his wife's stuff even though I don't think she would ever cheat on him. I've never been a jealous person nor do I snoop... even when I've suspected something and the opportunity presented itself... just not my nature.
Anyway, he snooped through her emails and found this email from a guy and her reply.
Him
Quote:
Damn, it was great to see you the other day! I hope we can talk
more.
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Her (W)
Quote:
Hey! I’ll be honest, I didn’t expect to hear from you so soon, if at all actually! I’m glad I did!
I think we could find something to talk about!! So what have you been doing over the past few years?!
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My first reaction was dude, you shouldn't be snooping... it looks innocent enough to me. Looks like she just ran into an old friend. He came down hard on me saying that I lack perspective since my marriage is crap.
I even thought to myself that if I somehow ran across an email like this from my MW that it wouldn't bother me. I told him to have the balls to admit that he snooped and was concerned about it or let it go. But as I thought about it throughout the day, I started second guessing myself. Maybe I'm not normal. Would other guys think this is something to address or worry about? Maybe there's something dysfunctional about me because I wouldn't worry about it. What do you think?
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