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Basically Im a 22 year old bisexual guy (not out openly).. I have never had sex or a relationship.. nor a proper freindship. I would love to have freinds to hang around with, but nobody seems that interested.. Im at uni aswell. and its been 2 months into the course, and I still made no real freinds.. other associates that I know, are the same age and enjoying there life.. where as mine for the past 22 years has been stuck on my own in my room.. its soo depressing and it really makes me feel down all the time.. I would just love to be needed, or have someone to talk to.. I have had a number of break downs in the past years.. Im just tired of it and want a change of life..
No one wants to hang with someone who they can smell "desperation" and non confidence on him. No one also wants to hang with someone who has nothing to offer. If you talk to these kids at uni, and you dont seem fun to hang with, or for the girls, fun and attractive, then you will continue to be lonely. You gotta step up your game.
__________________ ADF: People don't lie to spare other people; people lie to spare themselves. Anybody who says, "it's not you, it's me" is beneath contempt.
How can you not have friends? Not even in high school? I don't understand, because everyone has at least one good friend in life. That is all you actually need, you don't need ten million friends to feel happy, just one is enough, so i suggest you find one. Find someone who loves the same stuff you love, who listens to music you listen to, someone who shares similiar values. In college im sure there is someone waiting for you. Just a be a good friend to people and you will receive admiration in return, but if you don't, don't dwell on it. Treat everyone good, listen to someone when they have a problem. i am not the most fun person to be with, but i have good friends because i am always there when they need me.
How can you not have friends? Not even in high school? I don't understand, because everyone has at least one good friend in life. That is all you actually need, you don't need ten million friends to feel happy, just one is enough, so i suggest you find one. Find someone who loves the same stuff you love, who listens to music you listen to, someone who shares similiar values. In college im sure there is someone waiting for you. Just a be a good friend to people and you will receive admiration in return, but if you don't, don't dwell on it. Treat everyone good, listen to someone when they have a problem. i am not the most fun person to be with, but i have good friends because i am always there when they need me.
thats true.. I did use to be a good freind for people, but others took advantage, so I dont even bother anymore as anyone just seems to use me.. I did have one close freind years ago, but they moved up north, and its been like that since 2005..
luckly it going alright at uni/college at the moment, so am hoping it just gets better and better
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